To be fair, it is really creepy to see your name on a tombstone/cremation urn. My DH and I have our spot next to my inlaws, and our urn aleady has our names, birthdates and wedding day on it. It is WEIRD- I feel like Scrooge when I go to pay my respects, and it really freaked out our nephew, who thought one of us must be terminally ill!
To be fair, it is really creepy to see your name on a tombstone/cremation urn. My DH and I have our spot next to my inlaws, and our urn aleady has our names, birthdates and wedding day on it. It is WEIRD- I feel like Scrooge when I go to pay my respects, and it really freaked out our nephew, who thought one of us must be terminally ill!
ReplyDeleteMy great aunt and great uncle purchased their plot and stone years and years ahead of their deaths. It creeped me out.
ReplyDeleteMy parents purchased the plot next to another relative to reserve it, but thankfully have no stone there.